It could just be me but we seem to think that because we didn't get the job, he wasn't faithful, she didn't say sorry, they forgot your birthday, nobody liked the post, you can't afford a new dress, you didn't get invited to the party or wasn't chosen for the assignment, that there is some lack on your part.
NO!!!! NO!!!! You are more than enough!!! I know we take big hits to our self esteem when someone doesn't love us as much as we love them or when we thought our life would be one way and it turns out different. However, it doesn't have to be that way.
Perception!!! The way we look at it can and will make all the difference in the world. I know it sounds like a cliche but you are fearfully and wonderfully made. To be a woman is a special honor. God saw that you were strong, caring, loving, smart and resourceful and therefore blessed you to be His special creation that conceives and holds life.
There is no one on this earth like you and that is why you are the best. It is his loss for choosing someone else, it is their loss for not giving you the promotion and it is God who has something way better than you thought you wanted.
You don't lack anything. You are more than enough!!!